WillYouLearn™
  • Home
  • About
    • Teachers
    • Blog
    • Gallery
    • FAQ
  • Lessons
    • Young Children
    • In-home Lessons
    • Guitar Lessons in NYC
    • violin lessons in nyc
    • Voice Lessons in NYC
    • Adult Music Lessons
    • One-Time Music Lessons
    • Online Music Lessons
  • Get Started
    • Register
  • Login

The One Mistake Almost Every Parent Makes With Their Kid’s Instrument

5/16/2025

0 Comments

 
You signed your kid up for lessons. You bought all the gear, grabbed the books,  You’re ready to go — and they’re not practicing. What the h??

The biggest obstacle to practice is access. It’s not motivation. It’s not talent. It’s friction.
If the keyboard’s on the floor or buried in a closet, if the violin’s out of tune and missing a shoulder rest,
if the amp’s dead because no one charged it... Your kid’s not going to practice. Would you?

I had way more talent on the clarinet than I did on piano — but because the clarinet lived in a case, had to be assembled, swabbed, packed up — it just didn’t happen. The piano was always ready and two minutes here and there added up to my 10000 and counting hours.

Practice needs to be as easy to start as picking up a pencil. No setup. No searching. No hassle. Charles Mingus famously kept his bass in front of his apartment door so that every time he left or came home, he had to physically touch or move it.
Here’s how to fix it:
  • Leave the instrument out. On a stand. On a hook. Not the floor. Not in the case.
  • Eliminate batteries. I'm seeing more and more battery-powered keyboards. Nope, nope, nope.
  • Keep it in tune. Learn to tune string instruments yourself. A two-second window of boredom + a ready-to-go guitar = a spark.
  • Make it inviting. Set the scene. A cozy lamp. A clean corner. Organize books and materials in a way your kid likes. Create a space they want to return to.

Think like a marketer - You’ve got three seconds to catch their attention. Lower the barrier. Raise the curiosity. This isn’t about forcing practice — it’s about getting them to want to come back. To mess around. To explore. It’s about momentum. Interest. Traction. Make it easier for them to to play than to walk away.

And when they’re ready to go deeper? That’s where we come in :)
0 Comments

Your comment will be posted after it is approved.


Leave a Reply.

WillYouLearn

Music, taught the way it’s meant to be learned.

Contact us

58 N 9th St
Brooklyn, NY 11249

Instagram Facebook

Lessons + WYL

In-home music lessons → Piano lessons Guitar lessons Voice lessons Songwriting lessons Violin, viola & cello Adult lessons Online lessons Teachers About Contact Performances Get started

Neighborhoods

All neighborhoods → Tribeca Battery Park City + FiDi Upper West Side Upper East Side Williamsburg Park Slope Bring WYL to your neighborhood

Teach with us

Great teachers should get to teach.

Working musician and serious educator? We’re always interested in meeting people who care deeply about both.

Join the faculty →

© 2026 WillYouLearn LLC

FAQ  ·  Policies

  • Home
  • About
    • Teachers
    • Blog
    • Gallery
    • FAQ
  • Lessons
    • Young Children
    • In-home Lessons
    • Guitar Lessons in NYC
    • violin lessons in nyc
    • Voice Lessons in NYC
    • Adult Music Lessons
    • One-Time Music Lessons
    • Online Music Lessons
  • Get Started
    • Register
  • Login